Defamatory

Sometime, it was tough to deals with people nowadays. Some of them assumed they were good when talking about something which they also not really sure and some of them also not so well when talking about something which they were always lost in the middle of conversation. The communication with these people are really makes me pain... as sometimes I need to let my ego down for a while in order to prevent any further disputes later. Let them talk what they want to talk according to what level they think they are. Levels are like a stair that being differentiate people from bottom to the top. Thus, most of them are chasing and competing each other to get place who is more qualified to be SOMEBODY. They want to be acknowledged all the time in order to gain respect from other people and become more influences person. I don't know whether because of qualification that they are holding made them to that way, talk everything and want people to say "Yes! absolutely right!". But, with whatever qualifications they have or some of them don't even have one trying to convinced people with their proven statement at one sided in any issues raised. No matter what issues, they dig it up and spread the thought to public directly or indirectly via whatever mediums as long as they know that people will acknowledge them. Did they think about the consequences of spread the wrong info to the public and it could be defamatory.
Please be careful to all my friends out there especially who are talking to much about everything no matter what they had in their past. Sometimes, there is no winning to be talkative person and silence doesn't means we are losing.
 
" Fitnah itu lebih dahsyat dari pembunuhan" (Al-Baqarah 191)
"Fitnah itu lebih besar dari pembunuhan" (Al-Baqarah 217)

If a long time ago, who want to be a leader they must be strong (physically) and then follow by the power of money and assets. But now, things changed. The most eligible to be a leader are "those are knowing more" and "the fast thinker".