Money and Pain

Most of our dispute againts anyone before is causes by 2 major problems that beyond our control and within our control respectively. They are absoblutely money and pain. Money is something valuable for our living and pain is regards to our health. As you know Money is created by human and health is Allah pleasure. Can human get control their health and source of income? the only thing that human can control is money as it depands on the their management of financial and liabilities. Human have power to control their need, thus they can spend and save accordingly to their financial level. If they underestimate their power to control and give it all to God, in the end they will fall to the ground economically. When self financial is become upside down, it leads to the dispute against environment, people around as well as self internal. It proves as we can see in many of marriage that end up divorce. I can say that the main reason it happens is because of money. Husbands not affordable to give or support in money matter to their wives, couldn't buy something for the children or not afford to take their family for vacation. This is show how big is money in chart of our life. Eventhough the husband don't have intention to ignore the responsibility, it happens because of luck or lacked of knowledge that make them left behind economically. How to resolve this matter is depands on how far you could go in your life. The spiritual inside is important. You have to do something about it, the more you try the tiny chances of financial dropped down. Money also can make your friendship end. I said that because it happens to me and to most of all my friends. I know that some of them are not purposely to borrow money without return back because they might be having conflict with their financial. But, I as the borrowee also can't ignore it because I worked day and night to get those money. When I insist want the return and they the borrower could'nt settle it, then we will fight against each other. Normally, borrower will run away and don't want to see me again. That is how the friendship gone.
Pain, if you have this, the value of your money dropped automatically and when the sicknesses you have is critical, coudn't eat, walk, talk or laugh, then seriously you will be losing your happiness over the rich you had. Your money is only worth to support your medicine and hospitalization. Everyone is scare of being sick frequently. It might slow down their life flows. If you get fever, cough or flu, definitely you will spend at least RM50 to buy medicine and if you suspected denggi victim, the cost might be increase because you are admitted for at least 2 or 3 days at hospital. The cost you spent because you have no choice. Healthy is everything. But if you died, money is no longer useful to you and you also don't need those things already. Pain could lead someone to become out of his mine, become mad, tension, weak and lot more. This is one of the reason there will be a dispute againts people around him or mad over the environment.
Money and health are surely important in our life. If we don't have enough money, we will be suffer internally. But when we are in pain, we suffer both external and internal. People said, money can make us get well faster by getting paid medicine after meet the doctor. But, it is like we throw the money and get healthy. So, which one is the first? Between money and pain, what is your choice?